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Choosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start with We>Me Book

"Whether you are single, engaged or married, you don't want to miss out on this profound and practical message."
-- Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott, New York Times bestselling authors

Any married person will tell you: there's a huge difference between what you expect marriage will be like, and what marriage is actually like. For so many couples the struggle is real as the "reality check" of marriage begins to unfold with each passing year.

But while marriage may be hard, a healthy marriage doesn't stop there. Because by learning to journey through the hard things, you get the opportunity to experience the great things on the other side.

With a candid yet compassionate approach, licensed counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta, walks you through eight significant choices involved in taking marriage from hard to great. Throughout each chapter, Debra shares astonishing survey results from thousands of singles and married couples, revealing intimate details about things like love, sex, conflict, communication, and attraction.

From her experience as a professional counselor and wife, Debra believes that a beautiful exchange occurs when spouses learn what it means to choose we before me. Discover practical steps you can take on the hard-but-great journey of choosing marriage.

Published on:
May 01, 2018
Duration:
6:32:00 (HH:MM:SS)
Publisher:
Harvest House Publishers
ISBN:
0736973389
Narrated by:
Sarah Zimmerman
Book share status:
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Debra Fileta (Author)
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Before anything else in her life, Debra Fileta is a woman in love with Jesus. That love has been the driving motivator propelling her forward in her pursuits as a wife, a mother, a licensed professional counselor, a speaker, and an author.

She’s is married to the love of her life, who pushes her to pursue her dreams and is her number one fan! She and John are parents to four beautiful children – Ella, Elijah, Ezra, and Ethan. They live in Lancaster, PA.

Debra is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in dating, marriage, and relationship issues, along with a spectrum of mental health disorders and issues. She’s also the author of True Love Dates, Choosing Marriage, Love in Every Season, Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions.

Her popular relationship advice blog TrueLoveDates.com reaches millions of people each year with the message of healthy relationships!

Debra is the founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network.

Gary Thomas (Foreword)
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Gary Thomas, born in 1961, is a bestselling author and international speaker whose life's mission revolves around bringing people closer to Christ and fostering deeper relationships within the Christian community. His unique and impactful journey intertwines a love for literature with a passion for spiritual growth.

Thomas began his academic pursuits with a Bachelor of Arts in English Literature from Western Washington University. He then delved deeper into theological studies, earning a Master's degree in systematic theology from Regent College in Vancouver, British Columbia. His education equipped him with the tools to analyze scripture, delve into church history, and explore the writings of Christian classics, all of which would inform his future work.

Beyond his academic endeavors, Thomas actively served in various ministry roles. He spent eleven years on the teaching team at Second Baptist Church in Houston, one of the largest churches in the United States. Currently, he is part of the teaching team at Cherry Hills Community Church in Colorado and serves as an adjunct faculty member at Western Seminary in Portland, Oregon and Houston Theological Seminary in Houston, Texas.

With his combined understanding of scripture, theology, and relational dynamics, Thomas embarked on a prolific writing career. His books, like "Sacred Marriage" and "When Couples Walk a Different Path," explore the complexities of love, communication, and spiritual growth within marriages and relationships. He tackles sensitive topics with honesty and compassion, offering practical guidance and biblical wisdom to navigate challenges and foster stronger connections.

Thomas's influence extends beyond the printed word. He regularly speaks at conferences and events, captivating audiences with his engaging style and insightful messages. His work resonates with both individuals and couples, guiding them towards fulfilling and vibrant relationships built on faith and understanding. Whether through his books, talks, or online resources, Gary Thomas continues to inspire and equip others on their spiritual journeys.

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